Sometime back, we heard about the surety of God's word: if He says something, it will surely come to pass, whether it is a blessing or a curse. But when does God pronounce a blessing or a curse? Can we choose to be blessed or cursed? Or, is it beyond our control?
Let's go step-by-step and understand this very important question.
1. What is a covenant?A covenant is an agreement between two people, sealed with a sacrifice. In the Middle East, in ancient times, a covenant had a deep meaning. An animal sacrifice was made. The sacrifice was cut into two pieces. Both parties entering into the covenant walk through that sacrifice. It signified that:
- Both are dead to each other, in the context of the covenant.
- Both will live for each other, from that point onwards. That is, both will seek each other's good.
- Each person will have ownership over all the things possessed by the other person.
We see God entering into such a covenant with Abraham in Genesis 15:9-18.
Later on, God entered into a covenant with Israel, through Moses. The covenant was sealed with the blood from an animal sacrifice (Exodus 24:8). This is the old covenant, which was not a perfect covenant. The perfect covenant was made when Jesus shed His blood on the Cross. He became the pure and perfect sacrifice for our sins. This covenant was between God and all mankind. This is the new covenant.
2. Blessing or curseJoshua 23:14-16:
"Now I am about to go the way of all the earth. You know with all your heart and soul that not one of all the good promises the LORD your God gave you has failed. Every promise has been fulfilled; not one has failed. But just as every good promise of the LORD your God has come true, so the LORD will bring on you all the evil he has threatened, until he has destroyed you from this good land he has given you. If you violate the covenant of the LORD your God, which he commanded you, and go and serve other gods and bow down to them, the LORD's anger will burn against you, and you will quickly perish from the good land he has given you."As we see in the above passage, if the people of Israel kept the covenant of the Lord, they were entitled to God's blessings. Instead, if they broke His covenant, there were sure to be cursed. The above covenant is the old covenant. Now we are in the times of the new covenant. Does the same rule above hold good even now?
Matthew 25:31-46: talks about the last days, when Jesus will don the role of a Judge. He will separate the good people from the bad people. In verse 34,
"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father ..." , and in verse 41,
"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed ...".

Going through the whole passage, we find that by their actions or inactions people were judged. If they did a good thing like helping a hungry person, or a person in prison, they were storing up for themselves eternal blessings. On the other hand, those who did not do a good thing (inaction) were storing up for themselves eternal curses.
Eternal blessing or curse depends on the choices we make every day. Doing an evil thing, or not doing a good thing - both potentially stop a blessing and bring a curse!
So, yes! We do have a choice about whether we get blessed or cursed. And, yes again! It is within our control now, to choose to be blessed, and not cursed.
3. The basis for our actions: loveNot every kind of situation we face in life is covered in the above passage. When faced with a situation that is not directly addressed in the Bible, how do we make the right choice, so that we get blessed and not cursed?
Matthew 22:35-40. Love is the key. Jesus puts it clearly: love for God, and love for our neighbours. When all our actions are based on love, we'll know for sure which is the right choice to make.
4. The enabler: Holy spirit
It is easy to see the truth above, but very difficult to imbibe this truth and apply it in ALL the situations we face in our day to day life. "Lord! I can love anyone, but that person!" "Lord! I can forgive anyone but her!" "Lord! I love you, but don't ask me to do that!" Infact, it is impossible to keep the above without the help of ... that's right: the Holy Spirit!
Personally, I tried to live the message, after preparing it. But it was tough! I thought it would be so easy to review my day, every night, see where all I've acted in a wrong way, and correct myself the next day. It didn't work out that way! I couldn't consistently sit down and do that review every night. And on the days when I did review my day, I found way too many areas where I had failed. It was so discouraging! It was then that I found the missing link. Without the Holy Spirit, we can never consistently choose blessing over curse.
If we have a living relationship with the Holy Spirit, and give Him room in our life, we will be one among the sheep in the day of judgement! Eternal blessings will be ours!